Summary of Carol Tuttle's The Child Whisperer

Everest Media

Description

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.
Sample Book Insights:
#1 Your children are their own handbook. They are constantly giving you clues about who they are and the personalized parenting they need from you. By innate, inner self, I mean your child’s natural quality of moving, thinking, feeling, and relating to the world.
#2 To grandparents, educators, and others who want to become a Child Whisperer: This book will give you the insights and tools you need to support children in living true to their nature in any situation.
#3 The goal of this book is to help you become a Child Whisperer, someone who recognizes the messages children send every minute, even when they don’t know how to say their needs out loud. When you become a Child Whisperer, you will understand what your children’s rebellions, friendships, and joys mean about their true selves.
#4 A change in parenting approach doesn’t just affect your own family, but it can also change the way you raise children and how you understand others and yourself. When you understand and honor your child’s true nature, you can raise a child who feels capable, confident, and valuable in the world.

Sujets

• Parenting
• Général

Informations

• Publié par: Everest Media LLC
• Date de parution: 13 mars 2022
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781669353751
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 1 Mo

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Insights on Carol Tuttle's The Child Whisperer
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Insights from Chapter 1

#1

Your children are their own handbook. They are constantly giving you clues about who they are and the personalized parenting they need from you. By innate, inner self, I mean your child’s natural quality of moving, thinking, feeling, and relating to the world.

#2

To grandparents, educators, and others who want to become a Child Whisperer: This book will give you the insights and tools you need to support children in living true to their nature in any situation.

#3

The goal of this book is to help you become a Child Whisperer, someone who recognizes the messages children send every minute, even when they don’t know how to say their needs out loud. When you become a Child Whisperer, you will understand what your children’s rebellions, friendships, and joys mean about their true selves.

#4

A change in parenting approach doesn’t just affect your own family, but it can also change the way you raise children and how you understand others and yourself. When you understand and honor your child’s true nature, you can raise a child who feels capable, confident, and valuable in the world.
Insights from Chapter 2

#1

Some parenting styles are wounding parenting styles, meaning they inadvertently wound children. They are not intentionally hurtful, but they ignore or squash the child’s unique nature.

#2

The billion-dollar self-help industry is flooded with adults who are looking for healing and self-understanding. But for most, this healing involves recovering from the wounds and traumas of their childhood.

#3

Parents all over the world encounter situations that stump them, and many of their dilemmas boil down to one frustrating pattern. Children resist parenting styles that run contrary to their true nature.

#4

If you answered yes to any of the questions above, it’s time to stop inadvertently wounding your child and time to start raising them in a way that honors and supports you both. You will learn how to encourage and support the best in your child easily and joyfully.
Insights from Chapter 3

#1

The term whisperer originated when the 1998 movie The Horse Whisperer depicted a philosophy of working with horses based on an understanding of how horses think and communicate. The same philosophy applied to working with dogs, and if the owner could intuitively read their animal’s needs and respond correctly, the animals would cooperate.

#2

The same principle applies when dealing with children: when you know how to read the messages you are given and respond to them in kindness and with inspiration, you will experience more cooperation and mutual respect.

#3

Child Whispering is a philosophy of parenting based on the model of Energy Profiling. It focuses on the way your child naturally expresses themselves, and it helps you understand what they are designed to experience and express.

#4

Instead of trying to discipline and train children into a certain way of being, parents should recognize their children’s natural way of being and parent them according to their individual needs.

#5

I have had children ask me for my autograph. I am a Child Whisperer with a natural ability to see and relate to their innate nature. This is not a special gift, but rather something that can be learned.
Insights from Chapter 4

#1

As parents, we naturally want our children to succeed. But we must remember that success is not just about their happiness, but also about their true nature and their individual needs.

#2

The expectations we have of our children, especially in social situations, should be reevaluated. We should consider whether we want to look like good parents or actually be good parents.

#3

The pursuit to do enough may look different depending on your family culture, but the resulting exhaustion and discouragement for both parent and child is the same. And it creates a void in a child’s life that no amount of doing will ever fill.

#4

When we believe that high performance is the standard of success, we encourage our children to grow into over-achieving adults, who are conditioned to believe that their achievements create their value. However, this is a lie, and your children will have to undo it to find their true worth.

#5

When you experience parent-child conflict, or your child does not want to cooperate or comply with something you’ve requested, stop and ask yourself: Do I need my child to be a certain way or accomplish certain things in order for me to feel good as a parent.

#6

The first step to creating happiness in your home and becoming a better parent is to tell your child these two simple statements: I love you, and I want you to be happy.
Insights from Chapter 5

#1

As a parent, your goal is to become a Child Whisperer. You should be able to intuitively understand your child’s needs, rather than reacting to them. You should also be able to recognize and support your child’s natural movements and motivations.

#2

The idea that you have to put something into your children to make them good is false. Children already come with a built-in design of who they really are. You should instead open yourself up to your own intuitive gifts and abilities.
Insights from Chapter 6

#1

Energy Profiling is a method to help you understand your child’s natural movement. It is not a personality test, but it does take into account several factors to determine your child’s personality.

#2

In Energy Profiling, there are four Types of natural movement. Each Type is labeled with a number to avoid negative judgment associated with descriptive titles. The four Types each describe different qualities and levels of movement that children naturally express.

#3

As parents, we often try to change or shape our children into something they are not. We don’t even realize we are doing it. You will get clear intuitive hits as a parent when your own true self is honored and whole.

#4

The Energy Type of a child is determined before they ever develop a personality.